This wasn’t a subject I really wanted to touch upon but in light of the recent approval on gay marriage New York I figured I should. Personally, I think its ridiculous that in the 21st century Gay marriage is still a big no no. I would like to think that I could marry the person that I truly feel in love with, be that man or woman.[1]
Most of the reasons against making gay marriage legal seem to be based on misinformation and/or prejudice. Let’s take a look:
Being gay is not natural
Homosexuality is an unconscious attraction to someone of the same sex. It is a condition that has been with us as long as we have been human. It is not a choice, and only an idiot would think that it was a choice. Even if it were a choice, it is still completely stupid to treat anyone as a second-class citizen.
Even if it wasn’t natural, we’ve adapted to plenty of unnatural things (like glasses, cars, tattoos, air conditioning, TVs, piercings, silicon breasts, etc.)
Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay
In the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall. While some people experiment with their sexuality in their lifetimes that doesn’t make them gay. As I said above, being ‘gay,’ is more than a physical act.
Perhaps we should stop teaching our kids about gender differences too, since it might encourage a boy to act like a girl or vice-versa.
Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior
A common argument from some is that if we allow gay marriage, then people might want to marry their dog (or lamp). Last I checked, there’s a difference between two human beings getting married and a human and dog getting married.
Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed
Yeah, like the sanctity of Britney Spears’ 55-hour just-for-fun marriage is really going to be lost if gays are allowed to marry. Or Michael Jackson’s to Lisa Marie Presley. Or all those marriages that end in divorce.
Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home
Plenty of people have been raised by one parent and have come out normal, likewise there have been people who’ve had both of their parents at home and ended up bad.
Gay marriage is not supported by religion
Last I checked, I live in a Democratic Republic with separation of church and state, not a theocracy.
Straight marriages are valid because they produce children
In that case, I’d hate to be an old person, or infertile, while trying to get married.
It looks like Republicans/conservatives are fighting a losing battle.
[1] For the record, I’m straight.